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Making Peace with What I Can’t Control

Find Relief from the Exhaustion of Overthinking, Trying to Fix Others, and Wanting to Figure It All Out

by Lysa TerKeurst ...

#1 New York Times bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst offers a life-giving alternative to the exhausting madness of trying to change people who don't want to be changed, prevent outcomes we fear, and manage things outside of our control.It's not that we want to be controlling people; it's just that we want to prevent bad things from happening and bring stability to the chaos. Especially when we are ... Read more

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#1 New York Times bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst offers a life-giving alternative to the exhausting madness of trying to change people who don't want to be changed, prevent outcomes we fear, and manage things outside of our control.It's not that we want to be controlling people; it's just that we want to prevent bad things from happening and bring stability to the chaos. Especially when we are
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Difficult Conversations

How to Discuss What Matters Most

by Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton, Sheila Heen ...

The 10th-anniversary edition of the New York Times business bestseller-now updated with "Answers to Ten Questions People Ask"We attempt or avoid difficult conversations every day-whether dealing with an underperforming employee, disagreeing with a spouse, or negotiating with a client. From the Harvard Negotiation Project, the organization that brought you Getting to Yes, Difficult Conversations ... Read more

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The 10th-anniversary edition of the New York Times business bestseller-now updated with "Answers to Ten Questions People Ask"We attempt or avoid difficult conversations every day-whether dealing with an underperforming employee, disagreeing with a spouse, or negotiating with a client. From the Harvard Negotiation Project, the organization that brought you Getting to Yes, Difficult Conversations
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Codependent No More

How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself (Revised and Updated)

by Melody Beattie ...

REVISED AND UPDATED * With a New Chapter on Trauma and Anxiety, a List of Resources, and More * 2023 Nautilus Book Award Winner * As Heard on Glennon Doyle’s We Can Do Hard Things PodcastThe cultural phenomenon that has helped heal millions of readers, this modern classic holds the key to understanding codependency and unlocking its hold on your life.Melody Beattie’s compassionate and insightful ... Read more

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REVISED AND UPDATED * With a New Chapter on Trauma and Anxiety, a List of Resources, and More * 2023 Nautilus Book Award Winner * As Heard on Glennon Doyle’s We Can Do Hard Things PodcastThe cultural phenomenon that has helped heal millions of readers, this modern classic holds the key to understanding codependency and unlocking its hold on your life.Melody Beattie’s compassionate and insightful
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Friendship Skills for Neurodivergent Adults

A Guide for the Anxious, Uniquely Wired, and Easily Distracted

by Caroline Maguire ...

From a social emotional learning expert: a book providing simple, science-based, practical advice including scripts, tips and strategies to help Neurodivergent adults who have ADHD, autism or anxiety find the belonging and support of lifelong friendships they seek.Friendship can be hard for many Neurodivergent adults. There is an assumption that good, worthwhile friendships “should” come easy. ... Read more

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From a social emotional learning expert: a book providing simple, science-based, practical advice including scripts, tips and strategies to help Neurodivergent adults who have ADHD, autism or anxiety find the belonging and support of lifelong friendships they seek.Friendship can be hard for many Neurodivergent adults. There is an assumption that good, worthwhile friendships “should” come easy.
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The Power of Attachment

How to Create Deep and Lasting Intimate Relationships

by Diane Poole Heller, PhD ...

How traumatic events can break our vital connections—and how to restore love, wholeness, and resiliency in your lifeFrom our earliest years, we develop an attachment style that follows us through life, replaying in our daily emotional landscape, our relationships, and how we feel about ourselves. And in the wake of a traumatic event—such as a car accident, severe illness, loss of a loved one, or ... Read more

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How traumatic events can break our vital connections—and how to restore love, wholeness, and resiliency in your lifeFrom our earliest years, we develop an attachment style that follows us through life, replaying in our daily emotional landscape, our relationships, and how we feel about ourselves. And in the wake of a traumatic event—such as a car accident, severe illness, loss of a loved one, or
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Homecoming

Reclaiming and Healing Your Inner Child

by John Bradshaw ...

In this powerful book, the #1 New York Times bestselling author of Reclaiming Virtue shows how we can learn to nurture our inner child and offer ourselves the good parenting we needed and longed for.Are you outwardly successful but inwardly feel like a big kid? Do you aspire to be a loving parent but too often “lose it” in hurtful ways? Do you crave intimacy but sometimes wonder if it’s worth the ... Read more

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In this powerful book, the #1 New York Times bestselling author of Reclaiming Virtue shows how we can learn to nurture our inner child and offer ourselves the good parenting we needed and longed for.Are you outwardly successful but inwardly feel like a big kid? Do you aspire to be a loving parent but too often “lose it” in hurtful ways? Do you crave intimacy but sometimes wonder if it’s worth the
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How To Tell What People Are Thinking (Revised and Expanded Edition)

From the Bedroom to the Boardroom

by Peter Collett ...

A trusted handbook for more than a decade, Peter Collett’s bestselling guide to body language, How to Tell What People Are Thinking, has been fully updated with the latest research, including insight into everything from Zoom meetings to the confounding world of online dating.Understand what people aren’t saying and what you’re unwittingly revealing about yourselfHow does the way someone use their ... Read more

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A trusted handbook for more than a decade, Peter Collett’s bestselling guide to body language, How to Tell What People Are Thinking, has been fully updated with the latest research, including insight into everything from Zoom meetings to the confounding world of online dating.Understand what people aren’t saying and what you’re unwittingly revealing about yourselfHow does the way someone use their
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Recovering from Emotionally Immature Parents

Practical Tools to Establish Boundaries and Reclaim Your Emotional Autonomy

by Lindsay C. Gibson, PsyD ...

In this sequel to the New York Times bestseller, Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents, author Lindsay Gibson offers powerful tools to help you step back and protect yourself at the first sign of an emotional takeover, make sure your emotions and needs are respected, and break free from the coercive control of emotionally immature parents.Growing up with emotionally immature (EI) parents ... Read more

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In this sequel to the New York Times bestseller, Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents, author Lindsay Gibson offers powerful tools to help you step back and protect yourself at the first sign of an emotional takeover, make sure your emotions and needs are respected, and break free from the coercive control of emotionally immature parents.Growing up with emotionally immature (EI) parents
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Talk

The Science of Conversation and the Art of Being Ourselves

by Alison Wood Brooks ...

**A groundbreaking book that reveals the hidden architecture of our conversations and how even small improvements can have a profound impact on our relationships in work and life—from a celebrated Harvard Business School professor and leading expert on the psychology of conversation.“Alison Wood Brooks brings to life the science of conversation, in which she is a world expert, with the utmost ... Read more

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**A groundbreaking book that reveals the hidden architecture of our conversations and how even small improvements can have a profound impact on our relationships in work and life—from a celebrated Harvard Business School professor and leading expert on the psychology of conversation.“Alison Wood Brooks brings to life the science of conversation, in which she is a world expert, with the utmost
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Secure Love

Create a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime

by Julie Menanno ...

Create a lasting and loving attachment with this national bestseller, a “must-read for every couple, at any stage of their relationship” (Lori Gottlieb, New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone) from the expert couple’s therapist behind the popular Instagram account @TheSecureRelationship.What does a healthy relationship look like?A good question, in theory, but couple ... Read more

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Create a lasting and loving attachment with this national bestseller, a “must-read for every couple, at any stage of their relationship” (Lori Gottlieb, New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone) from the expert couple’s therapist behind the popular Instagram account @TheSecureRelationship.What does a healthy relationship look like?A good question, in theory, but couple
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Abraham Maslow, de la jerarquía de necesidades a la autorrealización

Un viaje por la psicología humanista a través de la jerarquía de las necesidades, la motivación y el pleno desarrollo del potencial humano

by Stefano Calicchio ...

¿Quién fue Abraham Maslow y por qué siguen siendo tan interesantes sus teorías? ¿Cómo puede su visión de la jerarquía de necesidades transformar nuestro enfoque de la vida y el crecimiento personal? ¿Qué significa realmente emprender el viaje hacia la autorrealización?Esta guía explora desde una perspectiva teórica y práctica la vida y obra de uno de los psicólogos más influyentes del siglo XX, ... Read more

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¿Quién fue Abraham Maslow y por qué siguen siendo tan interesantes sus teorías? ¿Cómo puede su visión de la jerarquía de necesidades transformar nuestro enfoque de la vida y el crecimiento personal? ¿Qué significa realmente emprender el viaje hacia la autorrealización?Esta guía explora desde una perspectiva teórica y práctica la vida y obra de uno de los psicólogos más influyentes del siglo XX,
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The Internal Family Systems Workbook

A Guide to Discover Your Self and Heal Your Parts

by Richard C. Schwartz, PhD ...

Series series Sounds True Inner Workbooks
The only official workbook from Dr. Richard C. Schwartz, founder of Internal Family Systems, to meet, understand, and heal the parts of yourselfThe Internal Family Systems (IFS) model teaches that each of us is not a single personality. Rather, we carry in us a “family” of distinct inner parts that hold our many hurts and conflicts―and that we can heal in order to live with more confidence, ... Read more

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The only official workbook from Dr. Richard C. Schwartz, founder of Internal Family Systems, to meet, understand, and heal the parts of yourselfThe Internal Family Systems (IFS) model teaches that each of us is not a single personality. Rather, we carry in us a “family” of distinct inner parts that hold our many hurts and conflicts―and that we can heal in order to live with more confidence,
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When He's Married to Mom

How to Help Mother-Enmeshed Men Open Their Hearts to True Love and Commitment

by Kenneth M. Adams, Ph.D. ...

A practical, compassionate relationship guide for women who are involved with mother-enmeshed men, mothers who wish to set their sons free, and men dealing with issues of commitment, sex addiction, and unhealthy attachments.Why can't he commit? Many women find themselves asking this question when in love with a man who won't get married, won't stop womanizing, or refuses to give up his sex ... Read more

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A practical, compassionate relationship guide for women who are involved with mother-enmeshed men, mothers who wish to set their sons free, and men dealing with issues of commitment, sex addiction, and unhealthy attachments.Why can't he commit? Many women find themselves asking this question when in love with a man who won't get married, won't stop womanizing, or refuses to give up his sex
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The Status Game

On Human Life and How to Play It

by Will Storr ...

‘Will Storr is one of our best journalists of ideas … The Status Game might be his best yet’ James Marriott, Books of the Year, The TimesWhat drives our political and moral beliefs? What makes us like some things and dislike others? What shapes how we behave, and misbehave, in groups? What makes you, you?For centuries, philosophers and scholars have described human behaviour in terms of sex, power ... Read more

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‘Will Storr is one of our best journalists of ideas … The Status Game might be his best yet’ James Marriott, Books of the Year, The TimesWhat drives our political and moral beliefs? What makes us like some things and dislike others? What shapes how we behave, and misbehave, in groups? What makes you, you?For centuries, philosophers and scholars have described human behaviour in terms of sex, power
... Read more
Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents

How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents

by Lindsay C. Gibson, PsyD ...

A New York Times bestseller—with 1.5 million copies sold!If you grew up with an emotionally immature, unavailable, or selfish parent, you may have lingering feelings of anger, loneliness, betrayal, or abandonment. You may recall your childhood as a time when your emotional needs were not met, when your feelings were dismissed, or when you took on adult levels of responsibility in an effort to ... Read more

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A New York Times bestseller—with 1.5 million copies sold!If you grew up with an emotionally immature, unavailable, or selfish parent, you may have lingering feelings of anger, loneliness, betrayal, or abandonment. You may recall your childhood as a time when your emotional needs were not met, when your feelings were dismissed, or when you took on adult levels of responsibility in an effort to
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The Love You Never Received

How Childhood Emotional Neglect Shapes You—and How to Heal, Reparent Yourself, and Finally Feel Worthy

by Yahya Kasozi ...

You are not “too much.”You are not broken.You are patterned.And those patterns were built long before you understood them.If you:• overthink and assume the worst, even when things are going well• feel unworthy of love even when people care• get attached, then anxious, then distant• keep choosing emotionally unavailable people• struggle to trust, relax, or fe... ... Read more

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You are not “too much.”You are not broken.You are patterned.And those patterns were built long before you understood them.If you:• overthink and assume the worst, even when things are going well• feel unworthy of love even when people care• get attached, then anxious, then distant• keep choosing emotionally unavailable people• struggle to trust, relax, or fe...
... Read more
Before You Marry

How to Spot Red Flags, Test Relationship Compatibility, and Avoid Costly Divorce

by Yahya Kasozi ...

Choosing who to marry is one of the most important decisions you will ever make — yet most people evaluate it emotionally, not structurally.They marry with hope. With love. With confidence.And many later discover that love was not enough.The issue is rarely intention.It is evaluation.Before You Marry introduces a structured framework for assessing long-term compatibility beyond chemistry, beyond ... Read more

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Choosing who to marry is one of the most important decisions you will ever make — yet most people evaluate it emotionally, not structurally.They marry with hope. With love. With confidence.And many later discover that love was not enough.The issue is rarely intention.It is evaluation.Before You Marry introduces a structured framework for assessing long-term compatibility beyond chemistry, beyond
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Attached

The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find--and Keep-- Love

by Amir Levine, Rachel Heller ...

Discover how an understanding of adult attachment—the most advanced relationship science in existence today—can help us find and sustain love“Over a decade after its publication, one book on dating has people firmly in its grip.”—The New York TimesWe already rely on science to tell us what to eat, when to exercise, and how long to sleep. Why not use science to help us improve our relationships? In ... Read more

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Discover how an understanding of adult attachment—the most advanced relationship science in existence today—can help us find and sustain love“Over a decade after its publication, one book on dating has people firmly in its grip.”—The New York TimesWe already rely on science to tell us what to eat, when to exercise, and how long to sleep. Why not use science to help us improve our relationships? In
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Love Life

How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What)

by Matthew Hussey ...

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLERUSA TODAY BESTSELLERINTERNATIONAL BESTSELLERAn essential set of tools and principles for healing your heart, finding love, and loving life.Finding love can be hard. Being single can feel even harder. In Love Life, world-renowned coach and New York Times bestselling author Matthew Hussey provides a practical roadmap for letting go of past relationships, overcoming the fear ... Read more

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NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLERUSA TODAY BESTSELLERINTERNATIONAL BESTSELLERAn essential set of tools and principles for healing your heart, finding love, and loving life.Finding love can be hard. Being single can feel even harder. In Love Life, world-renowned coach and New York Times bestselling author Matthew Hussey provides a practical roadmap for letting go of past relationships, overcoming the fear
... Read more
Mattering

The Secret to a Life of Deep Connection and Purpose

by Jennifer Breheny Wallace ...

**AN INSTANT NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER“A timely, vitally important read.” — Adam Grant, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Think Again and host of the podcast Re:thinking“Beautifully written and deeply felt. Wallace gives readers the insights we need to understand each other, and the actions we can take to enhance each other’s lives.”— Susan Cain, #1 New York Times bestselling author of ... Read more

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**AN INSTANT NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER“A timely, vitally important read.” — Adam Grant, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Think Again and host of the podcast Re:thinking“Beautifully written and deeply felt. Wallace gives readers the insights we need to understand each other, and the actions we can take to enhance each other’s lives.”— Susan Cain, #1 New York Times bestselling author of
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All About Love

New Visions

by bell hooks ...

Series Book 1 - Love Song to the Nation
A New York Times bestseller and enduring classic, All About Love is the acclaimed first volume in feminist icon bell hooks' "Love Song to the Nation" trilogy. All About Love reveals what causes a polarized society, and how to heal the divisions that cause suffering. Here is the truth about love, and inspiration to help us instill caring, compassion, and strength in our homes, schools, and ... Read more

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A New York Times bestseller and enduring classic, All About Love is the acclaimed first volume in feminist icon bell hooks' "Love Song to the Nation" trilogy. All About Love reveals what causes a polarized society, and how to heal the divisions that cause suffering. Here is the truth about love, and inspiration to help us instill caring, compassion, and strength in our homes, schools, and
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Miles Cartes' Say It Right Every Time Theory

A Proven Principle for Mastering Difficult Conversations and Communicating with Confidence, Empathy, and Clarity at Work and Home (With Reflection Exercises)

by Infinite Reflections ...

Have you ever found yourself fumbling through a tough conversation, regretting what you didn’t say or how you said it? Whether it’s at work, in your personal life, or with loved ones, difficult conversations can leave you feeling uncertain and frustrated. You know what you wanted to say, but somehow, it didn’t come out the right way.The truth is, most people struggle with handling high-stakes ... Read more

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Have you ever found yourself fumbling through a tough conversation, regretting what you didn’t say or how you said it? Whether it’s at work, in your personal life, or with loved ones, difficult conversations can leave you feeling uncertain and frustrated. You know what you wanted to say, but somehow, it didn’t come out the right way.The truth is, most people struggle with handling high-stakes
... Read more
Scapegoated

by Lynn Nichols ...

You Were Chosen Because You Were Dangerous to Their Carefully Constructed Lies.Not because you were broken — because you saw too clearly, felt too deeply, and refused to go along with the fiction.If you grew up absorbing blame that was never yours, silenced when you tried to speak, and told that your version of events was the problem — this book was made for you.THE TRUTH ABOUT FAMILY ... Read more

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You Were Chosen Because You Were Dangerous to Their Carefully Constructed Lies.Not because you were broken — because you saw too clearly, felt too deeply, and refused to go along with the fiction.If you grew up absorbing blame that was never yours, silenced when you tried to speak, and told that your version of events was the problem — this book was made for you.THE TRUTH ABOUT FAMILY
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The Gift of Not Belonging

How Outsiders Thrive in a World of Joiners

by Rami Kaminski, MD ...

From a renowned psychiatrist comes the first book to explore the otrovert personality—someone who feels like an outsider in any group—revealing all the advantages of being an otrovert.Were you the kid who never wanted to join after school clubs or go to sleepaway camp? Do you loathe parties but love spending time with close friends one-on-one? Are you allergic to teamwork but thrive creatively and ... Read more

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From a renowned psychiatrist comes the first book to explore the otrovert personality—someone who feels like an outsider in any group—revealing all the advantages of being an otrovert.Were you the kid who never wanted to join after school clubs or go to sleepaway camp? Do you loathe parties but love spending time with close friends one-on-one? Are you allergic to teamwork but thrive creatively and
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