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  • BIFF for CoParent Communication

    Your Guide to Difficult Texts, Emails, and Social Media Posts

    In divorce and co-parenting, not only do parents need to deal with their own emotions, they may be faced with a daily barrage of hostile calls, texts, social media blasts, and/or emails. How can you regain a sense of control and peace for your own sake and for the kids? For more than a decade, the BIFF method of responding to hostile and misinforming conversation has been used by thousands of ... Read more

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  • Biff

    Quick Responses to High Conflict People, Their Personal Attacks, Hostile Email and Social Media Meltdowns

    We live in an age of rapid change and instant communication. We also live in a Culture of Blame and Disrespect. Managing your responses to high-conflict emails, texts, letters, and social media meltdowns is imperative. A BIFF response can be applied in any communication anywhere - on the Internet, in a letter or in person. It can be used at work, earning you respect and success. It can help you ... Read more

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  • Biff

    Quick Responses to High-Conflict People, Their Personal Attacks, Hostile Em

    We live in an age of rapid change and instant communication. We also live in a Culture of Blame and Disrespect… Has anyone ever told you: “It’s all YOUR fault!” “You should be ashamed of yourself!” “You’re a disgrace to your _________________!” [family][community][country][team][profession][party][you fill in the blank] “What’s the matter with you? Are you crazy? Stupid? Immoral? Unethical? Evil?” ... Read more

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  • It's All Your Fault at Work!

    Managing Narcissists and Other High-Conflict People

    No, it’s not just your imagination—more and more people in the workplace today have high-conflict personalities. Co-workers, clients, even bosses are behaving in narcissistic or bullying ways, choosing targets and then placing blame on them, treating them with disdain, or otherwise acting in aggressive, inappropriate ways. Some go so far as to spread damaging rumors, harass, or directly sabotage ... Read more

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  • It's All Your Fault!

    12 Tips for Managing People Who Blame Others for Everything

    This is Bill Eddy's book filled with lots of practical methods for handling High Conflict People (HCPs) in any setting, including neighbor disputes, workplace conflicts, family battles, with strangers, etc. HCPs target those close to them and people in positions of authority, so in this book Bill focuses on what to do when YOU are the Target of Blame—and how to avoid (or prevent) being one for ... Read more

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  • 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life

    Identifying and Dealing with Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Other High-Conflict Personalities

    by Bill Eddy ...
    Some difficult people aren’t just hard to deal with—they’re dangerous.Do you know someone whose moods swing wildly? Do they act unreasonably suspicious or antagonistic? Do they blame others for their own problems?When a high-conflict person has one of five common personality disorders—borderline, narcissistic, paranoid, antisocial, or histrionic—they can lash out in risky extremes of emotion and ... Read more

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  • High Conflict People in Legal Disputes

    by Bill Eddy ...
    People with high conflict personalities (HCPs) clog our courts as plaintiffs with inappropriate claims against their personal "targets of blame," and as defendants who have harmed others and need to be stopped. Everybody knows someone with a High Conflict Personality. "How can he be so unreasonable?" "Why does she keep fighting? Can't she see how destructive she is?" "Can you believe they're going ... Read more

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  • Calming Upset People with EAR

    How Statements Showing Empathy, Attention and Respect Can Quickly Defuse a

    by Bill Eddy ...
    The level of stress and conflict in today's world is higher than seen in decades. We all can use tools for managing the emotions this has caused. At the same time, there also appear to be more "high conflict" people who are preoccupied with blaming others and verbally venting or attacking those around them. Yet, these upset emotions and conflicts can often be calmed immediately through the use of ... Read more

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  • Don't Alienate the Kids

    Raising Resilient Children While Avoiding High Conflict Divorce

    by Bill Eddy ...
    In this tenth anniversary edition of Don't Alienate the Kids! attorney, mediator, and therapist Bill Eddy shows readers how to protect children from the harm of alienation and high-conflict divorce, boosting their resilience by teaching them to think flexibly, manage their emotions, and moderate their behaviors.We all know breakups can get ugly. But sometimes they can get downright vicious, with ... Read more

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  • So, What's Your Proposal?

    Shifting High-Conflict People from Blaming to Problem-Solving in 30 Seconds

    Blame abounds! People confront us at work, the store, and online. Nerves get on edge. We get stuck blaming others for anything that goes wrong. With high-conflict people increasing in society, the twenty-four-hour news cycle, and social media, we hear constantly about the worst behavior. The temptation is to react and blame. Instead, consider using the simple methods taught in this book for ... Read more

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  • Dating Radar

    Why Your Brain Says Yes To "The One" Who Will Make Your Life Hell

    Why do so many of us commit to the wrong person – sometimes more than once? While most believe that attraction and compatibility are the keys to relationship success, in reality these are red flags in 15-20% of the population. When it comes to love, the brain is irrational and short-sighted. We make decisions based on incomplete information, biased understanding, and strong emotion. Love truly is ... Read more

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  • Stop Walking on Eggshells for Partners

    What to Do When Your Partner Has Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder

    In a relationship with someone who has BPD or NPD? You deserve clarity, safety, and the power to choose what’s right for you.If your romantic partner, spouse, husband, wife, boyfriend, or girlfriend struggles with borderline personality disorder (BPD) or narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), you may feel trapped in a cycle of gaslighting, emotional abuse, blame, and high-conflict arguments. You ... Read more

    $11.99 USD